How Dane Saved Christmas

Hero

The other day when we were out to lunch Dane picked up a handful of cash off the floor. Actually, handful of cash doesn't quite cover it, it was a wad of $100 dollar bills. Tons of them, well over $2,ooo. Steve and Dane deduced that the man ahead of us in line had dropped the money and they chased after him. He was easy to follow because he'd left a trail of $100's that were falling out of his pockets. By the time they caught up with him as he was getting in his car, Dane had collected another thousand dollars off the ground. Dane handed over the cash, the man had no idea he had even dropped any of it. He thanked Dane and drove away. Dane would like to think that the guy had just withdrawn all that money from the bank and was on his way to do his Christmas shopping for his kids. Therefore Dane feels that he saved someone's Christmas. I'm not really concerned about that guy's Christmas, I'm just impressed that Dane didn't pocket any of the money. Way to make a mother proud.

Just Breathe

Usually by this time in December I'm totally ready for Christmas; house decorated, presents bought and wrapped, cards mailed, Christmas dinner planned... By mid-December the kids and I have been to the Dickens Fair, to the skating rink, hosted a holiday party... We haven't done any of those things yet. I'm not a last minute person, I like getting things done early then sitting back and actually enjoying the holidays. This year I am hopelessly behind, and frankly, it's stressing me out. I've been wracking my brain to figure out what is making this year so different and difficult. Today when Dagny came home from school it dawned on me, having a child in public school has completely thrown off my groove. When both kids were homeschooled we did school year-round and that allowed us to take the entire month of December off. We spent our days doing all kinds of Christmassy things together, and we had plenty of time to get everything done and then some. (many years with time left over for a quick trip to Disneyland) To keep me sane I've put Dane on the same school schedule as Dagny, so neither one of them is out of school until the 18th. This is a new timeline for us, we're going to have to pack a lot of holiday fun into two weeks of school vacation. (5 days of which they will be away at Winter Camp) That means I need to get to work. So, after I take a deep breath, I'll take a moment to be grateful for Amazon.com and expedited shipping, then I'll do what I can and be happy with the results. I'm pretty sure Christmas doesn't need to be this stressful.

Gallery of Holiday Activities That We

May or May Not Get Around To This Year

outdoor ice skating

Dickens Christmas Fair

making (faux) Gingerbread Houses

Hanging Out With Mickey

Holiday Soundtrack

There's a lot to enjoy during the holidays, and for me, every single one of those things is enhanced by the presence of Christmas music. I cue up my playlist of holiday favorites the day after Thanksgiving and the fun doesn't stop until the New Year. The right song makes standing in line at the mall less tedious, it's the perfect accompaniment when you're ice skating at the outdoor rink, it sets the mood as you drink hot chocolate by the fire, it heightens the excitement of opening presents... Basically holiday music is magical and I love it.

A Few of My Favorites

Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas

~ Judy Garland

I'll Be Home For Christmas

~ Tony Bennett

We Wish You The Merriest

~ Frank Sinatra

The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year

~ Andy Williams

It's Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas

~ Bing Crosby

Step Into Christmas

~ Elton John

Cool Yule

~ Louis Armstrong

Little Saint Nick

~ Beach Boys

Let It Snow

~ Harry Connick Jr.

Christmas Waltz

~ Rosemary Clooney

The Big 4-0

Recipe For The Perfect 40th Birthday Party

Mix the following ingredients together along with

liberal amounts of music and laughter. Enjoy

A 40 Year Old and His Lovely Wife

Food

Kitchen Staff

Friends

Family

Embarrassing Pictures

(Almost) White Christmas

We woke up this morning to a Winter Wonderland. Everything is clean and beautiful, the ice and snow sparkle in the sunlight. It's a lovely sight to see, but I won't be sad when it melts and goes away. It's fun for a day, but not for everyday. There's a reason I live in California.

Look Who's Forty

Steve has a philosophy that after you're 18 the only birthday's worth celebrating are the one's that end in five or zero. Forty ends in zero, so it's time to celebrate. In all the years I've known Steve he has never let me throw him a birthday party, I can't believe he agreed to it this year. I'm glad he wants to celebrate, I certainly do. If there was ever a birthday worth celebrating, this is it.

It's Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas

It will look a lot more like Christmas

as soon as I get all of this on the tree